She has talked to guys who have played with her emotions,lead her on, and messed with her head. she’s trusted only to have them go and abuse the trust that she gave them, she’s opened up and gotten close to a guy only to have him get bored and leave when he felt like it, to him she was merely only an option and it hurt her because she had invested so much time&effort into getting to know this special guy, she developed feelings, but in the end that kindness and trust led her to be taken advantage of. This guy said one thing to make her believe he was interested which made her feel like she could finally let down the walls around her precious heart, but little did she know he was merely playing her for a fool and that his intentions weren’t honest. With that being said, guys when she trusts you and opens up to you then don’t take advantage of that because you don’t even know how hard it was for her to finally let her barriers down and trust you, love you, and be herself around you.
No matter how much we try to keep up with what society believes is beautiful, we all have imperfections. When we look in the mirror and we see something that we don’t like, those are the moments when we should love ourselves most, those so called imperfections make us real, alive, and grounded in a way that we too can admire beauty in others. Most of us feel that there is something on ourselves that we would change if given the opportunity. But why I ask? Our flaws make us unique in our own way.
Be gentle and kind to yourself inside and out, be accepting of flaws and know that it is what rests in the depth of your soul that people truly see. It shines and glows, it can be felt, it is what makes you beautiful. Have you ever met a not so society accepted person, but as you got to know them, you catch of glimpse of their beautiful soul, finding them totally irresistible? This is the secret, you have to work from the inside out.
Truly see the beauty within, this is no cliche, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Look in that mirror and look at yourself, and say I am so beautiful. Be thankful that you are alive and stop dwelling on what you think you should be. It is so important that you learn the secrets to feeling comfortable in your own skin. You don’t want to spend the rest of your life not being happy. Each one of us is a unique individual who deserves to be respected. So realize that you are special and beautiful, who gives a shit about what society says. <3
"Start accepting and embracing your flaws. Once you’ve accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you. Love yourself. Forgive yourself. Accept yourself. You are you and that’s the beginning and the end… no apologies, no regrets"